Camping guide
Planning your first family camping trip with kids
The goal of a first trip is not to impress anyone. It is to have a good enough time that your kids ask when you are going again. Most of that comes from choosing an easy place and keeping the plan small.
Start with an easy campground
Pick somewhere close, ideally under two hours of driving. A short drive means a late start on Friday or an early retreat on Saturday night costs you very little. A good first campground is a developed one, with a bathhouse, drinking water at or near the site and a camp host or office you can walk to.
Hookups
Electric hookup is not about air conditioning. It lets you charge phones, run a fan, boil a kettle and keep a small light on in the tent. If you are tent camping for the first time, a site with electric is a cheap safety net. Full hookups (water, electric, sewer) matter if you are in a camper. Check which your site actually has, because many campgrounds mix hookup and non-hookup sites in one loop.
Bathhouse
With small children, distance to the bathroom decides the weekend. A site within a two-minute walk of a clean bathhouse means fewer tears at 2 am. A site far from it is better if you want quiet and your kids are old enough to walk there with a flashlight. Read recent reviews, since cleanliness changes from year to year.
Shade
Shade changes how hot the tent gets by 8 am and how long a toddler can play outside in July. Full sun is fine in spring and fall. In summer, look for tall trees on the south and west side of the pad, and remember the site photos may have been taken before the trees leafed out.
Site size and layout
Check the listed pad length and the tent area, not just the number of people allowed. A family of four with a large tent, a canopy and a camper van will not fit on a small walk-in site. Also look at how the sites sit relative to each other. Sites backing onto the road or the dumpster are quieter on paper than they are at night.
Ask about the rules before you book
- Quiet hours and the check-in and check-out times
- Whether fires are allowed at the moment (burn bans change quickly)
- Pet rules and leash length
- Maximum tents or vehicles per site
- Whether the camp store sells ice and firewood
Reservation timing
Popular state and national park campgrounds on summer and holiday weekends often fill months ahead. Reservation windows differ, so look up the one for your campground instead of guessing. Some systems open dates six months out on a rolling basis, others release them in batches.
- For a holiday weekend or a well-known park, check the booking window as soon as you pick the date, and be ready on the morning it opens.
- For a quiet weekend at a smaller campground, a few weeks ahead is often enough. Midweek is easier at almost every campground.
- Book two nights for a first trip. One night feels like a lot of work for very little camping, and three can be too many if the weather turns.
- Read the cancellation policy. Kids get sick, and a refundable booking is worth a small fee.
A sample weekend
This assumes a Friday to Sunday trip with a short drive. Adjust the times to your kids.
Friday
- Afternoon: leave early enough to arrive with at least two hours of daylight. Everything takes twice as long the first time.
- Arrival: pitch the tent first, then the kitchen, then everything else. Let the kids explore the site boundary and agree on where they may go without an adult.
- Dinner: something you have made nearly all of at home, like pasta with a jar sauce, hot dogs or foil-packet potatoes. A first night is not the time to learn a new recipe.
- Evening: a small fire, s’mores, and a walk to the bathhouse together so the dark is not scary on the second trip.
Saturday
- Morning: a simple breakfast (oatmeal, eggs and bacon, or cereal with the cooler’s milk) and one outing, such as a short trail, a creek, a playground or a lake.
- Midday: lunch back at camp and quiet time in the shade. Naps are not a failure on a camping trip.
- Afternoon: a second, optional activity, such as bikes around the loop or a ranger program. Skip it if everyone is tired.
- Evening: the more ambitious dinner if you want one, then the fire. Put the kids to bed a little later than usual and do not fight it.
Sunday
- Morning: pack as you eat breakfast. Pack the kitchen and the sleeping gear first, leaving the tent for last in case it is wet.
- Before you leave: walk the whole site for stakes, toys and trash, and make sure the fire is cold to the touch.
- Drive home: stop for lunch somewhere that is not at camp. It makes the end of the trip feel like part of the fun.
What goes wrong, and what to do
It rains
Set up a tarp or canopy over the picnic table before anything else, and keep a dry change of clothes sealed in a bag. Rain at a campground is a mild disaster for an hour and then a pleasant, quiet afternoon. A deck of cards and a book keep kids calm. If it is storming hard or there is lightning, go to the car.
Nobody sleeps
It is dark in a way your kids are not used to, and the sounds are strange. Bring a small night light or a dim lantern, the bedtime book and the comfort toy. Expect a rough first night. The second is almost always better.
You are cold at night
Most cold in a tent comes from the ground, not the air. A sleeping pad matters more than a thicker bag. Put a hat on everyone, change out of damp clothes, and put a hot water bottle in the footwell of the bag.
You forgot something
You will. The camp store, the nearest town or the neighboring site can usually cover it. Write the item down so it goes on next time’s list, and move on.
The kids are bored or fighting
Give them a job: collecting kindling, filling water jugs, running the lantern. A nature scavenger hunt, a flashlight game after dark and a bike loop all help. The goal is not entertainment, just enough to do.
Bugs
Use repellent that is safe for the age of your child, wear long sleeves and pants at dusk, and check everyone for ticks after any time in grass or woods. A screen tent over the table is a cheap upgrade for buggy months.
Someone is hurt or sick
Know where the nearest clinic or urgent care is before you leave, and write the park office number on paper. Cell signal can be weak, so do not rely on your phone to look it up.
Afterwards, write it down. Within a day or two, record which site you had, what you liked, and what you would change. Memory fades quickly, and the details are what make the second trip better. See our guide on what to write down about a campsite.
Plan it with your crew
CampCrew is a private logbook for the family or friends you camp with. You can log the campground and site, add notes and photos after the trip, and share it with the other people in your group. It is free to start and has no ads.